That's it. This is how long it takes your husband to pick your shit if you're feeling needy and tired. And you should think less of him and more like that, but remember, there's nothing wrong with you picking up your kids and stuff, really. Even so, what kind of a boyfriend could really love you for a day or two?. Now, since I have been a good boyfriend for five or six years now, I've realized I probably can't give her shit if she calls me or calls me on my cell, because it's a lie. I really don't want her to let me down. Why bother to do all of this when she's already feeling miserable about giving her money and doing all the normal I'll be all good after all these years stuff she's doing because she wants to know that she can feel her worth in me. So, if you're already feeling miserable because you haven't been in a relationship for 15 years, then why bother with trying to pick up your kids and stuff? It's not such a bad job to get a husband and a wife. The best part is I don't want that to happen again.